Thanks for the reply Mikeful, we thought It may have been caused by firewall issues but I have dedicated internet from my machine and my buddy plugged his internet into his machine. We totally disconnected the routers to eliminate this problem in the troubleshooting process. I am thinking that the first packet may be getting dropped which would keep any other packets from being recieved properly. I will hard code a resend init packet and assign that to a button so I can resend that first packet as many times as I want to determine wether this is the problem or not.
Thanks for the help
Thanks for the help