Now I can see the other game on the computer, so that brought me half-way there, but the problem with this is that I can see the game on the other computer, but when I click on it it says "cannot join multi player game" or soemthing like that. it doesn't even matter that I use the same game. any one with a startnet game command will show the other game and give the same problem. Even when I try to give specific things to do when hosting or joining a game.