Haven't been dating in a while. Last one didn't care one way or another since I wasn't coding all day. Generally, I don't think many significant others, male or female, would care unless you were coding so often that your health declined (unless they're into that 'BBW' thing.. those people scare the crap out of me). If that were the case, then I think you'd have more serious issues than whether or not she respects your insanity.