What is considered 'too much' these days, BTW?
It's a fuzzy line, but if you wake up in a place you don't expect then it's "too much". If you wake up in your own bed, turn over and some strange girl is smiling at you, then it's "too much". If you wake up in your own bed, turn over and some strange girl and your girl friend are smiling at you then that's ok, lol.