depends on if you believe in subjective or objective reality.
Indeed. I wonder which version of reality the 2004 tsunami victims believed in, or the families of the World Trade Centre 2001 terrorist attack casualties, or the survivors of the 1987 stock-market crash, or the nearby residents of the 1986 Chernobyl nuclear power plant meltdown…
It doesn’t matter what we believe. Many things just happen that are out of our control and not only extreme things, but little things every day.
Now, our attitude about what happens to us, is a different story.